Recognition We long to belong. Being validated by and belonging to a human group has been recognized as an essential need in all human beings. We crave appreciation. Acceptance and valuation in the eyes of others. It is a very deep need. Fulfillment of which is a vital factor for harmonious development. Risky business Because of this crucial importance, we are also scared of rejection, and disapproval. The pain of being blamed, judged, disavowed, is too much to bear and